Speak Only Good or Be Silent


In this article, I want to encourage you to typically choose silence over speech.

Yes, I am advising you and myself to keep our mouths shut all the time except for a few meaningful exceptions.

And the reason for this will be clear to you at the end of today’s article.

The proof this advice is documented in authentic hadith of the Prophet (SAW), Sunnan at-Tirmidhi, and it goes thus:

Umm Habibah reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said,

“Every word of the son of Adam is against him, not for him, except for enjoining good, forbidding evil, or remembrance of Allah.”

Did you get that?

The only times we are really profiting from our speeches are those mentioned in the above narration. All other times, we are making no profits at all and we may even be accumulating great losses.

This calls for self-reflection to ensure that we are earning rewards with our tongues and not committing further sins.

That is why I think silence is golden. It is certainly better than complaints, idle talks and yes, gossips.

May Allah SWT guide us aright. Allahuma ameen.

 

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